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Grieving the Loss of an Eating Disorder Why Letting Go Can Feel Like Losing a Part of Yourself

For many people in eating disorder recovery, there’s a moment when progress doesn’t feel like relief — it feels like grief.

You’re doing the work: restoring meals, reducing rituals, going to therapy, maybe even gaining weight or reclaiming your life. But instead of celebration, you feel… lost.

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How to Tell Your Significant Other You Have an Eating Disorder

Opening up about an eating disorder (ED) to a significant other can feel scary and vulnerable, but having their support and understanding can be a huge part of your recovery. If you’re ready to share, here’s how to approach the conversation in a way that fosters trust, honesty, and emotional safety.

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Fear Food Exposure: Overcoming Anxiety Around Food

Fear food exposure is a technique used in eating disorder recovery to help you gradually reintroduce foods that cause anxiety and break free from food-related fears. It allows you to retrain your brain, rebuild trust with your body, and ultimately enjoy all foods without guilt or stress.

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How to Celebrate Milestones in Recovery

Celebrating milestones in eating disorder recovery is important because it reinforces progress, boosts motivation, and acknowledges your strength. Every step forward—big or small—deserves recognition. Here’s how to celebrate in a way that aligns with your healing journey.

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Celebrating Birthdays in Eating Disorder Recovery

Birthdays can be exciting, emotional, or even challenging in eating disorder recovery. They often involve food, social gatherings, and body image thoughts, which might bring up anxiety or ED urges. However, your birthday is about celebrating YOU—not about stress, guilt, or food rules.

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Role-Play Exercises for Tough Conversations About Eating Disorder Boundaries

Practicing boundary-setting through role-play exercises can help you feel more confident, prepared, and assertive when tough conversations arise. These exercises simulate real-life scenarios, giving you structured responses to use when someone pushes back on your boundaries.

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Humor Is Important on Your Eating Disorder Recovery Journey

Eating disorder recovery can be emotionally exhausting, overwhelming, and frustrating—but humor can be a powerful coping tool that makes the journey a little lighter. While eating disorders are serious, finding moments of laughter can ease anxiety, reduce stress, and help reframe difficult situations.

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Puberty and Eating Disorders: Understanding the Risks and Prevention

Puberty is a critical period for physical, emotional, and psychological development, but it can also be a high-risk time for the onset of eating disorders. The combination of hormonal changes, body image concerns, social pressures, and emotional shifts makes adolescents more vulnerable to developing disordered eating behaviors.

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How to Prevent Treatment Dropout & Relapse in Eating Disorder Recovery

Preventing treatment dropout and relapse in eating disorder recovery requires a combination of motivation, structured support, and emotional resilience. Many individuals struggle with ambivalence, fear of weight gain, or resistance to change, which can lead them to disengage from treatment or return to disordered behaviors. By identifying early warning signs and implementing relapse prevention strategies, patients can stay on the path toward long-term recovery.

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Ambivalence in Anorexia Recovery: Understanding Resistance to Treatment

Many individuals with anorexia nervosa experience ambivalence toward treatment—feeling both a desire to recover and a deep fear of letting go of their disorder. This internal conflict makes treatment challenging, as patients may resist interventions even when they are medically at risk.

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Increasing Independence in Your Child’s Eating Disorder Recovery

As your child progresses in eating disorder recovery, the goal is to gradually shift responsibility for eating back to them in a safe and structured way. This process requires patience, monitoring, and emotional support to ensure they maintain progress without feeling overwhelmed.

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A Critical Look at Fake News & Misinformation About Eating Disorders: Separating Fact from Fiction to Protect Lives

In a world of viral trends, TikTok “nutritionists,” and endless wellness influencers, it’s no surprise that eating disorders are often misrepresented, oversimplified — or dangerously glamorized. Misinformation about eating disorders doesn’t just create confusion — it can delay treatment, fuel shame, and even worsen outcomes for those struggling.

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Are the rates of eating orders different across different countries?

Yes, the rates of eating disorders differ across countries and regions, influenced by a complex mix of cultural, socioeconomic, genetic, and healthcare factors. But as awareness grows and research expands globally, we’re learning that eating disorders are not just a “Western problem.” They affect people in every part of the world — though how they show up, get diagnosed, and are treated can vary widely.

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