Why Adults Should Not Talk About Dieting in Front of Children

In today’s culture, conversations about dieting, weight loss, and body image are everywhere — in social media feeds, at family gatherings, even in everyday talk between friends. But when adults engage in these conversations around children, they’re not just words. They’re powerful messages that shape how young people think about food, bodies, and their own self-worth.

Even seemingly harmless comments like “I’m being so bad today” or “I need to lose 10 pounds” can plant seeds of confusion, shame, and fear in children — often long before they understand what dieting even means.

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“I’m Ready to Battle My Eating Disorder — What Are the Weapons I Need?”

A Comprehensive Guide to Preparing for the Fight for Your Life and Freedom

Making the decision to recover from an eating disorder is not a small moment — it’s an act of courage, a declaration of war against a condition that has long whispered lies, dictated your choices, and disconnected you from yourself.

But just like any battle, recovery requires preparation. It’s not about sheer willpower. It’s about having the right tools — the inner resources, external support, and practical strategies that will help you not only survive the war, but begin to rebuild a life of peace, presence, and purpose.

So if you’re ready to say, “I want to recover,” here are the weapons you'll need to carry.

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Is the opposite of an eating disorder connection? In many ways, yes.

This is a powerful and thought-provoking question — is the opposite of an eating disorder connection? In many ways, yes.

While eating disorders are complex mental health conditions rooted in biological, psychological, and social factors, they often thrive in disconnection — from the body, from hunger cues, from emotions, and from others. So it makes intuitive and clinical sense that healing often begins with reconnection.

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Brain Development & Eating Disorders: Understanding the Impact & Path to Healing

How Malnutrition Affects the Developing Brain — and What Recovery Makes Possible

Eating disorders affect every system in the body — but perhaps none more profoundly than the brain. Especially during childhood and adolescence, when the brain is rapidly developing, the effects of malnutrition, stress, and disordered eating behaviors can interfere with the structure and function of critical neural pathways.

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What Is Body Positivity and Steps You Should Take to Cultivate It

Body image is more than how you see your reflection. It’s how you feel in your body, how you treat it, and how you believe others perceive you. In a world that profits off of self-criticism, the concept of body positivity offers a radical counter-narrative — one that encourages acceptance, dignity, and compassion toward all bodies, including your own.

But what does body positivity really mean, and how can you begin to cultivate it — especially if you have struggled with disordered eating, body shame, or appearance-related anxiety? This post will explore the history, meaning, and actionable steps for practicing body positivity in a realistic and sustainable way.

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Resources for Eating Disorder Recovery: Books, Social Media, and Affirmations

Recovering from an eating disorder is not a one-size-fits-all journey — but having the right resources can make the path feel less isolating. Whether you're navigating anorexia, bulimia, binge eating disorder, ARFID, or struggling with body image and food anxiety, supportive tools can help you feel seen, grounded, and hopeful.

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Bullies & Eating Disorders: Understanding the Connection and Healing

Bullying is a form of emotional, verbal, or physical harm that can leave lasting psychological effects—especially when experienced during childhood or adolescence. One of the less visible, but highly significant, outcomes of bullying is its connection to the development of eating disorders.

While eating disorders are complex, multifaceted illnesses, the role of peer victimization, body-based teasing, and chronic social stress is well-documented in the pathways leading to disordered eating. Understanding this link is essential for prevention, early intervention, and compassionate care.

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Walking Around the Grocery Store in Eating Disorder Recovery

Grocery shopping can feel overwhelming, stressful, or even triggering when navigating eating disorder recovery. The store is full of labels, diet culture messaging, and decision fatigue, which can make it a challenging experience.

But with the right strategies, mindset shifts, and self-compassion, grocery shopping can become a more neutral and even empowering experience.

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Grieving the Loss of an Eating Disorder Why Letting Go Can Feel Like Losing a Part of Yourself

For many people in eating disorder recovery, there’s a moment when progress doesn’t feel like relief — it feels like grief.

You’re doing the work: restoring meals, reducing rituals, going to therapy, maybe even gaining weight or reclaiming your life. But instead of celebration, you feel… lost.

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How to Tell Your Significant Other You Have an Eating Disorder

Opening up about an eating disorder (ED) to a significant other can feel scary and vulnerable, but having their support and understanding can be a huge part of your recovery. If you’re ready to share, here’s how to approach the conversation in a way that fosters trust, honesty, and emotional safety.

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Fear Food Exposure: Overcoming Anxiety Around Food

Fear food exposure is a technique used in eating disorder recovery to help you gradually reintroduce foods that cause anxiety and break free from food-related fears. It allows you to retrain your brain, rebuild trust with your body, and ultimately enjoy all foods without guilt or stress.

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How to Celebrate Milestones in Recovery

Celebrating milestones in eating disorder recovery is important because it reinforces progress, boosts motivation, and acknowledges your strength. Every step forward—big or small—deserves recognition. Here’s how to celebrate in a way that aligns with your healing journey.

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Celebrating Birthdays in Eating Disorder Recovery

Birthdays can be exciting, emotional, or even challenging in eating disorder recovery. They often involve food, social gatherings, and body image thoughts, which might bring up anxiety or ED urges. However, your birthday is about celebrating YOU—not about stress, guilt, or food rules.

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Role-Play Exercises for Tough Conversations About Eating Disorder Boundaries

Practicing boundary-setting through role-play exercises can help you feel more confident, prepared, and assertive when tough conversations arise. These exercises simulate real-life scenarios, giving you structured responses to use when someone pushes back on your boundaries.

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Humor Is Important on Your Eating Disorder Recovery Journey

Eating disorder recovery can be emotionally exhausting, overwhelming, and frustrating—but humor can be a powerful coping tool that makes the journey a little lighter. While eating disorders are serious, finding moments of laughter can ease anxiety, reduce stress, and help reframe difficult situations.

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Puberty and Eating Disorders: Understanding the Risks and Prevention

Puberty is a critical period for physical, emotional, and psychological development, but it can also be a high-risk time for the onset of eating disorders. The combination of hormonal changes, body image concerns, social pressures, and emotional shifts makes adolescents more vulnerable to developing disordered eating behaviors.

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How to Prevent Treatment Dropout & Relapse in Eating Disorder Recovery

Preventing treatment dropout and relapse in eating disorder recovery requires a combination of motivation, structured support, and emotional resilience. Many individuals struggle with ambivalence, fear of weight gain, or resistance to change, which can lead them to disengage from treatment or return to disordered behaviors. By identifying early warning signs and implementing relapse prevention strategies, patients can stay on the path toward long-term recovery.

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Ambivalence in Anorexia Recovery: Understanding Resistance to Treatment

Many individuals with anorexia nervosa experience ambivalence toward treatment—feeling both a desire to recover and a deep fear of letting go of their disorder. This internal conflict makes treatment challenging, as patients may resist interventions even when they are medically at risk.

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