Challenging Stereotypes, Embracing Vulnerability, and Building a Healthier Self-Image

Body image issues are often viewed as a “female problem,” but that’s a myth — and a dangerous one. Body dysmorphia affects people of all genders, and growing evidence shows that boys and men are struggling in silence.

From obsessing over muscle size to extreme dieting, excessive exercise, or constant mirror-checking, body dysmorphic symptoms in males often go unrecognized, misdiagnosed, or dismissed. As a result, many suffer for years without support.

Body image is more than how you see your reflection. It’s how you feel in your body, how you treat it, and how you believe others perceive you. In a world that profits off of self-criticism, the concept of body positivity offers a radical counter-narrative — one that encourages acceptance, dignity, and compassion toward all bodies, including your own.

But what does body positivity really mean, and how can you begin to cultivate it — especially if you have struggled with disordered eating, body shame, or appearance-related anxiety? This post will explore the history, meaning, and actionable steps for practicing body positivity in a realistic and sustainable way.

In eating disorder treatment, we often focus on therapy, nutrition, and medical care — and rightly so. But alongside these clinical pillars, a growing body of research supports the therapeutic role of nature-based practices, including gardening, in promoting emotional regulation, body reconnection, and mental health recovery.

Gardening is more than a hobby. It can be a gentle, grounding, sensory-rich experience that supports healing from eating disorders in ways that traditional treatments cannot always reach. Whether it’s planting herbs on a balcony, working in a community plot, or simply repotting houseplants, interacting with nature through gardening can be a meaningful tool in the recovery process.

When we think of self-harm, we often picture behaviors like cutting or burning — physical acts of injuring the body to cope with emotional pain. But for many individuals with eating disorders, self-harm can take other forms — often hidden, socially normalized, or misunderstood.

In fact, many eating disorder behaviors are self-harming in nature, even when they’re not labeled that way.

Eating disorder recovery isn’t linear — and sometimes the biggest wins are quiet, internal, or easy to overlook. While we often focus on the red flags (and those are important), it's equally vital to celebrate the green flags — the signs that recovery is taking root, even in small ways.

Many people think osteoporosis and bone loss only happen to older adults, but the truth is bone health is built during childhood, teen years, and early adulthood. If you’ve struggled with an eating disorder, overexercise, or nutrient deficiencies, your bones might already be at risk—even if you're young.

Exercise is essential for overall health, but excessive exercise can lead to serious physical, mental, and emotional health risks. Overexercise is particularly concerning in individuals with eating disorders, body image concerns, or compulsive exercise tendencies, as it can cause injury, burnout, and long-term health complications.

In 2023, the American Academy of Pediatrics (AAP) released updated guidelines on the treatment of children and adolescents with overweight and obesity — the first major update in 15 years. These new recommendations have generated a great deal of discussion — especially among pediatricians, therapists, dietitians, and parents of children in larger bodies.

We often hear the terms “disordered eating” and “eating disorder” used interchangeably — especially in wellness circles, school settings, or on social media. But while they’re related, they are not the same thing.

Understanding the difference can help parents, providers, and individuals recognize red flags earlier and get the right level of support — before things get more serious.

Adolescence is a time of rapid growth — physically, emotionally, and socially. It’s also a time when many young people begin to develop more complex relationships with food, body image, and peer comparison. But for some, those changes can signal something more serious:

A teen eating disorder.

Eating disorders are not just about food — they are mental health disorders with serious physical consequences. They can be hard to spot, especially in teens who may hide symptoms or appear “fine” on the outside. But early recognition is key to preventing long-term health complications and increasing the chance of full recovery.