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Grieving the Loss of an Eating Disorder Why Letting Go Can Feel Like Losing a Part of Yourself

For many people in eating disorder recovery, there’s a moment when progress doesn’t feel like relief — it feels like grief.

You’re doing the work: restoring meals, reducing rituals, going to therapy, maybe even gaining weight or reclaiming your life. But instead of celebration, you feel… lost.

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How to Tell Your Significant Other You Have an Eating Disorder

Opening up about an eating disorder (ED) to a significant other can feel scary and vulnerable, but having their support and understanding can be a huge part of your recovery. If you’re ready to share, here’s how to approach the conversation in a way that fosters trust, honesty, and emotional safety.

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Writing a Self-Care Plan for Eating Disorder Recovery

A self-care plan is a personalized strategy that helps you prioritize your mental, emotional, and physical well-being while navigating recovery. It acts as a guide for managing stress, handling triggers, and nurturing yourself in a way that supports healing.

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Understanding and Incorporating “The Three Difficulties” in Eating Disorder Treatment

Recovery from an eating disorder is not just about eating differently — it’s about relating to suffering differently.

In the self-compassion and mindfulness world, “The Three Difficulties” is a framework introduced by meditation teacher Tara Brach, rooted in Buddhist psychology and supported by trauma-informed care.

These difficulties show up over and over again in eating disorder treatment. But when they’re brought into the light, they can become powerful gateways to healing

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Fear Food Exposure: Overcoming Anxiety Around Food

Fear food exposure is a technique used in eating disorder recovery to help you gradually reintroduce foods that cause anxiety and break free from food-related fears. It allows you to retrain your brain, rebuild trust with your body, and ultimately enjoy all foods without guilt or stress.

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How to Celebrate Milestones in Recovery

Celebrating milestones in eating disorder recovery is important because it reinforces progress, boosts motivation, and acknowledges your strength. Every step forward—big or small—deserves recognition. Here’s how to celebrate in a way that aligns with your healing journey.

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Celebrating Birthdays in Eating Disorder Recovery

Birthdays can be exciting, emotional, or even challenging in eating disorder recovery. They often involve food, social gatherings, and body image thoughts, which might bring up anxiety or ED urges. However, your birthday is about celebrating YOU—not about stress, guilt, or food rules.

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Your Eating Disorder is Not Your Personality

It’s easy to feel like your eating disorder is a core part of who you are, especially if it has been present for a long time. However, your eating disorder is not your personality, identity, or worth. It is something you are experiencing—not something that defines you.

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“My Eating Disorder is Not the Problem” – Understanding the Deeper Layers

It’s completely valid to feel like your eating disorder is not the real problem—because in many ways, it isn’t. Eating disorders are not just about food, weight, or body image; they are often a symptom of something deeper—unresolved emotions, trauma, anxiety, perfectionism, or the need for control.

If you’re feeling this way, let’s explore what’s underneath your eating disorder and how to navigate recovery with this understanding.

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Meal Planning Tips for Eating Disorder Recovery

Meal planning in eating disorder recovery can help reduce anxiety around food, build consistency, and ensure balanced nutrition while supporting a healthy relationship with eating. However, it’s important to approach meal planning in a flexible, non-restrictive way that aligns with recovery goals.

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